7 Quick Takes: The Adventures in Housesitting Episode

This week's Quick Takes are brought to you by Elizabeth Shue, of "Adventures in Babysitting" fame. And now apparently CSI. 

I've been housesitting for my future in-laws. While this may sound simple and unchallenging, I promise you I've had more than a few frustrations. 

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My future in-laws just had their kitchen redone. It's gorgeous with cherry cabinets and marble (although J tells me they're not marble but actually coriander? I don't know. They look like marble and stay cool like marble...) countertops. Unfortunately, I can't find ANYTHING! I like to cook, but I'm not an adventurous cook, so I rely on recipes. Which require measuring implements like cups and spoons. Which I CAN'T FIND! J has since told me that they are packed away still from the renovation. Sad day.

Look's like I can't do much of this in the next couple weeks. 

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Another kitchen related one (what can I say? I spend A LOT of time in the kitchen). J's family is all tall. J himself is just shy of 6 feet, his brother is a few inches taller, their Dad is around the same, and their Mom is around 5' 8". The only one even close to my height is his sister, and she's 5' 6" I think. Which still makes her over 4" taller than me. The kitchen layout and product placement reflects that height. Important things like the teapot and tea mugs are all on the second shelf. J came over yesterday and asked why I had left the teapot on the counter.

Incidentally, J himself has a weird way of putting things away in his kitchen. He put the tupperware containers on the very top shelf, and then the pie plate on the second shelf (which I can actually reach if I stretch). Gah!

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I took the bus the wrong way. Although I will blame this one more on Google Maps (or my inability to read it on my iPod) than the house itself, it was still an adventure. See I was trying to get to school, and Google Maps told me to take the bus at 7:07. I just didn't realize that there was a stop across the street from the one I was standing at until the bus I was supposed to be on came. It was also -40 C with a windchill that day. I got on the opposite bus, talked to the bus driver, got on a different bus, and finally hooked up to a train station to take me to the University. But the good news is I was only 5 minutes late for class!

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I got a parking ticket. Not in front of the house, because that would be weird, but at the train station which is next to a mall. Apparently the mall parking people really don't like park and riders. I had no other option though! I had to go to the University to work at the Information booth, and then get to my town 30 minutes away from the University to work my retail job! Sigh... I could have really used that $50.

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I have a one hour course every Tuesday that runs later in the evening (annoying, I know, but required!). So I decided to just drive to the University from the house, and suck it up and pay the $4 for parking for an hour. So I left the house, and got on the freeway. Unfortunately, I got on the freeway on the left side, and needed to get off of it on the right side within 2 km. By the time I finally got over, I had JUST missed the exit. Sigh. At least I was only 5 minutes late! (wait, this seems to be a trend...)

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One more kitchen one: I got really excited when I was looking around the kitchen (looking madly for measuring spoons) and found a stand mixer. There are so many things I would like to try and bake using a stand mixer. Except, I don't think my future mother in law uses it all that often. When I pulled it out, all the rubber coating of the cord started crumbling off. Needless to say, I didn't use it.

Aren't they beautiful?

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On the flip side, I have been sleeping really well at their house, so at least I have plenty of rest for all these adventures I keep having!

Have a great Friday everyone!

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Bus Musings

Who out there has ever been dumped? (I realize this is an odd question from a girl who just got engaged, and before you jump to conclusions--J and I are still engaged and happily planning both the wedding and the marriage) But seriously, if you've ever been dumped, who has had friends console you (with copious amounts of greasy pizza and (non-greasy) ice cream) with this statement: "He just couldn't accept who you are. You're better off without him."?

You mean I'm too... blonde?!

I know I have experienced all of the above, and I'm hoping sure I'm not alone. I was randomly musing about this on the bus to school this morning. Granted, it was 7 AM (8 AM classes 5, Courtney 0), so I'm not sure my musings made a whole bunch of sense, but I'm going to try and write out my rambling thoughts.

Much of the world says that if a relationship doesn't work out, it's because you couldn't accept each other as you are. We have giant libraries of books targeting pre-teen and teen girls, trying to empower them, telling them that they shouldn't change for boys, or relationships with said boys.

Now I'm not bashing that kind of empowerment, as a good majority of teenage boys are simply not mature enough to have the girl's best interests in mind. But if J didn't try and change me, I would venture to say that he wasn't being a very good husband. The way I see it, the vocation of marriage is a vehicle that God uses to a) make you holy, b) make your spouse holy, c) make your children holy, and d) make everyone who you touch with your life holy. I'm not a saint. I'm trying, but it's a work in progress. Part of J's job as my husband (starting August 18!) is to help change me into saint. So when we tell these teenage girls, for their own good, to remain who they are in the face of relationships, some of that becomes learned a little too well. It is good for a teenage girl to stand her ground when her boyfriend is telling her that sex would make their relationship so much better. It is not so good when a married woman stands her ground and says "I'm not 'mother material', don't try and change me." Note, I'm talking about Godly husbands who desire sainthood for their wives, not men who desire to control or demean their wives.

Part of who I am is who I used to be. This is the unchangeable part that J can't shape, and just has to accept. I thank God that he does accept that lost, Godless girl I used to be, and loves who she became. But part of who I am is who I'm growing to be. This is the part that J is largely going to shape. In fact, he already has.

When J and I first began to date, I strongly disliked cooking, was attending an evangelical church, and had strange liberal ideas about how the Catholic Church had to change to suit me. Now, I love to cook (although he had nothing to do with this directly, I was praying pretty hard that God would prepare me to be a good wife--this is what I got), and I love the Church, the way she is, and I realized that it was I who had to change, not the beautiful Bride of Christ.

Having J in my life has already changed me so much. If I refused to change for him, I would be alone, and my walk with God would be suffering. This is because changing for the man who is to be my husband, so that our relationship can be closer, is a pale shadow of changing for the Ruler of the Universe who desires perfect union with me.

7 Quick Takes: The Deep Freeze Episode

We have such weird weather here. For most of December we were hovering around 0 C (which is way warm for that time of year, as the average is -15 C). Now... well let me tell you what the temperature is now...

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-40 C. With the windchill, it has been -40 C nearly everyday this week. For you Americans, I'll do the conversion for you. -40 C is -40 F. Although, it actually "warmed" up today. It's only -20 C (-4 C)! So the rest of this post will be devoted to what I've been doing to keep warm.

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Tea. I love tea. I buy loose tea and infuse it in my fancy strainer container thing, and revel in the delicious warmth. My favourite variety right now is from David's Tea, and is called Checkmate. It tastes like chocolate, even though there is no chocolate in it! I actually have so much tea that I took all the over the counter medication out of the kitchen cupboard and put it in the medicine cabinet in the bathroom to have more room for tea.

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I could write a mushy post about J here, but I won't embarrass him. I just say that hugs warm me from head to toe!

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Layers. Lots and lots of layers. When I was waiting for the bus this morning, I was wearing a pair of leggings, a pair of jeans, a pair of wool socks with boots, a t-shirt, a cardigan, a hoodie with the hood up, a huge scarf wrapped several times around my head, my winter jacket, and my big furry mittens.

Somehow, I don't think I looked this good...

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Eating soup. I love soup. I used to hate soup, but I really think I just disliked soup that came in a can. J and I just made this one. It was delicious. But don't forget the parmesan on top! That's the key to the flavours.

Tortellini and Kielbasa Sausage Soup

Photo from alldayidreamaboutfood.com

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Working. Somehow I ended up with two part-time jobs. That means that I have 4 University classes, 2 part-time jobs, I volunteer with the Lifeteen Core and the Youth choir at Church, and I'm planning a wedding on top of it all. I seem to thrive when I'm busy though, so it's probably a good thing. Until I break down around midterm time...

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It's my birthday week! My birthday was Sunday, so Happy 22nd Birthday to me! I had a small get together, and had a great time hanging out with friends and talking wedding stuff. I also made these great cookie dough truffles, and pretzel bites that both went over well with the guests. 

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7 Quick Takes: The "What Was Courtney Doing All December?" Episode

I am a bad blogger. I realize this. I have mentioned this before. But in my defence, December was a really crazy month, OK? But one of my New Year's resolutions or things that I am going to try to do is blog more. But now, I'm sure you're all dying to know how my month was, so here goes:

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My parents, after 25 years of marriage, told me and my brother that they are splitting up. After a very long night, filled with J running around trying to find toilet paper after I used all his kleenex for my tears, and him leading me in the rosary and other prayers, I found hope again.

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You see, my parents have never been really faithful Catholics. But after that night, Mom completely turned around. Now she's fighting for Dad, for their marriage, even though he thinks he's in love with someone else.
I'm so proud of her. Her faith has just grown by leaps and bounds in the last month. Both parents went to Mass for the first time in years (besides Easter and Christmas), and Confession the first time in 25 years. This gives me hope.

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But the woman that Dad thinks he's in love with was abused. Her ex-husband tore away all her supports. Pretty much her only support is my Dad. But he belongs to us, not her.

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Throw in some death threats from the ex-husband towards both the "other woman" and Dad, and life got a little crazy. Thankfully, nothing has happened, and they did go to the police, so nothing should happen. But life is beginning to feel like a bad soap opera.

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And now for something completely different... I'm getting MARRIED! J asked me to marry him amid all my parent drama. I said yes. Because we have one thing my parents lacked (and in some ways still do): Christ in the centre of our relationship.

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We picked our date, and had a meeting with the Church yesterday! August 18, 2012 will be our wedding day!

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So am I off the hook for the long wait? On a more serious note, I would very much appreciate any prayers you can offer for me and my family. Satan really hates us and really would love to see my parents split up, I really really don't want to see that happen. Thanks! 

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